The Best Actor Insists On Living With Me!

Half amused and half speechless, Xia Siyu said, "Sleeping with you, it’s truly eye-opening." Even in marriage, they went to watch documentaries.

Bo Yan could hear the sarcasm in her tone, and he didn’t deny it, he just said, "Actually, after you mentioned it last time, I reflected on myself. I thought I was quite respectful to women, but some things are really subtle. Like when we interact, even if you’re a bit lively, I wouldn’t think much of it. I would just think, I married my wife, I have to spoil her even if I’m kneeling. But why must women be spoiled by men? Oh, I’m not saying they can’t be spoiled. What I mean is, the word ’spoil’ itself implies a subordinate position, like — how you spoil your pet dog or cat at home."

Many movies and romance novels talk about the male lead ’spoiling his wife’. But in reality, so-called ’spoiling the wife’ means loving her no matter what, spending money on her, doing things for her, shielding her from the wind and rain, creating a well-off life for her, as if that’s what love is.

But if you think about it, isn’t that how you treat your dog and cat? Spoil them, spend money on them, do things for them, protect them from harm. You might be reluctant to eat steak yourself, but you’re willing to buy expensive cat food for them. You hesitate to buy costly clothes for yourself, but you buy cute clothes and toys for your pets, most of which aren’t cheap. When someone insults your dog or cat, you feel more aggrieved than them, fearing they’ll get hurt.

But would you fall in love with your dog or cat? Love in the romantic sense. Of course not, right?

Because you know you’re the owner, even if you jokingly call yourself their ’poop scooper’, you’re still the owner.

You and your pets will never be equals. In today’s society, with so-called ’spoiling the wife’, men and women aren’t truly equals either. It’s just self-indulgent fantasy under the guise of ’love’.

Once you try to break this false warmth, like having the child take the mother’s surname, do you believe most men could accept it?

True equality means being evenly matched, not only economically but also psychologically.

As for Xia Siyu and Bo Yan, at least for now, that’s their situation. Even if they separated, they could live well on their own. But coming together isn’t because of some alliance, it’s simply because they like being together.

Although Bo Yan’s reflections weren’t something Xia Siyu could fully comprehend, she understood his general point.

She smiled and said, "In that case, I’ll spoil you more in the future."

"That won’t be necessary." He wasn’t complaining or implying anything in reverse, he just felt that since they were married and both had such thoughts, they should be honest about everything.

She could raise hell, and he’d be willing to take care of her. Not because of ’spoiling’, but simply because he truly liked her. So she said, "That won’t be necessary." He wasn’t complaining or implying anything in reverse, he just felt that since they were married and both had such thoughts, they should be honest about everything.

She could raise hell, and he’d be willing to take care of her. Not because of ’spoiling’, but simply because he truly liked her. So she