Chapter 1081: Chapter 1077: A WOMAN OF POWER 4 – SHOULD A WOMAN STAY FOR THE SAKE OF HER CHILDREN DESPITE BEING UNHAPPY?

As someone raised in a loving family with no quarrels and beatings happening, to find herself in a situation where she should tolerate all that nonsense for the sake of a child who one day might support her own father. That will be the same as trying to kill her.

"I remember how it felt being emotionally abused by my ex, the backer that taught me that not all that glitters is gold. It was horrible. It made me question my life choices so much to the extent of thinking extreme measures.

I don’t have a child now, and fortunately I don’t have an abusive boyfriend, or found myself in a sad relationship. If I am not happy in any relationship, I leave. I will not sabotage my happiness for any reason.

The same is true when it comes to marriage and having children. I don’t believe that when I am not happy or finding it difficult to hold on, I should continue despite having children."

"Does that mean that you can leave your marriage and even abandon your children?"

"That’s now what I mean. Leaving the marriage and abandoning children are two different things. When I am not happy in the marriage, I can leave him and start afresh. I can leave with my children and provide them with a better environment. It might not be as complete as what they thought they used to have. After all, when not happy, and suffering, as a mother, you barely show that to your children. Most of the time, they are completely clueless."

"They are innocent." 𝓯𝓻𝒆𝙚𝒘𝓮𝙗𝓷𝒐𝓿𝙚𝒍.𝙘𝓸𝙢

"Yes, but they aren’t fools. So, I would rather leave the marriage and do my best to gain custody of them. If I fail, and their father do loves them and can take care of them. After all, just because I am not happy doesn’t mean that the father is a bad one.

Sometimes, we just meet the man at the wrong time, not fated to us and the universe will be trying to tell us that its not your soulmate but we are too stubborn.

In cases like that, if you can move on, then do so. If you can be sure that you can stay in that marriage without expecting anything then continue. If you can’t then leave the marriage, fight for your children or leave them with your husband.

Even with the children, you can still go and see them. When you are settled, you can coparent and still manage to live happily.

"But_"

"However, my answers only apply to a woman who can actually stand on her own feet if she ever leaves that marriage. If you are confident, you can ditch the unhappy marriage and still live happily.

In my case, I wouldn’t want to raise the child with resentment. That’s why I would rather prefer to leave than force matters and live there all for the sake of raising children.

If I end up getting hurt in the future, I will resent the child because if I didn’t have the child, I wouldn’t have forced myself to remain only to suffer.

So, before I turn myself into a monster I can’t recognize, I would rather pack my bags and leave. For I believe strongly that when I am happy, my surroundings will become happier as well and that spreads to children."

This is why, amongst many reasons she doesn’t want to get married or be with one guy for life, she decided to raise her own children and live with them.

Knowing from the start that they are hers, she wouldn’t resent them even if something happens between her and the fathers. After all, from the start, they weren’t completely in the plan. They can still be kicked out if they ever make her upset.

Surely, her absurd response which didn’t align with what Penny was taught made her silent as she was tongue-tied by what she had heard.

Diamond found herself in a quiet environment that lasted all the way to the estate. It seems that this time she went overboard. She could only hope that Penny wouldn’t think to do something unwise that doesn’t match with her power.

After all, what she said might be tempting. What she didn’t tell Penny in both topics was the fact that, if the person involved didn’t have the power or the courage to do so, that person shouldn’t even think about doing something that reckless.

After all, for example, using her previous relationship with that ex, when she was with him, because she was already at a disadvantage, she couldn’t even muster the courage to chide them. When she knelt on her knees, being laughed at and treated like a dog, got forced to flee from that scene with her tail tucked between her legs, she couldn’t do anything.

In fact, she was forced to flee from the city completely. That’s how powerless she was. In that state, she didn’t have the right to open her mouth and say a word.

This doesn’t happen to ordinary and poor girls only, but also the rich ones.

For women like Penny, born in their noble families with such ancient thoughts, their lives might be worse than those of her fans she met with the other day. That’s how harsh the reality was. Of course, if the likes of Penny were to stand up, and fight, which takes a lot of courage, who knows, she might find happiness.

Of course, happiness also depends. Some would rather be in an unsettling relationship while having money, or act like they know nothing about their man’s affairs just for the world to know that they are happily married, which is false.

Anyway, only the people involved in the situation can extricate themselves from it. If they do nothing, then nothing changes. Moreover, before changing the situation, a person must be certain that he or she is capable of winning, because if you make a move and then fail ... hehe, she couldn’t help but shudder at the thought of the consequences.

Nonetheless, that wasn’t something that she was obligated to share. They are all adults. Should she think for them as well.

Besides, it wasn’t like Penny would be so stupid to follow what she has said, right?

The odds were few.