MTL - Right A? Excuse Me!-Chapter 75
After Xiaobao was born, everyone brainstormed and came up with a name.
Su Wanhe.
Because she was born in the evening.
Shi Ning felt that the name was too correct, and gave Xiaobao a nickname called Su Xiaoxiao.
After Su Danxue gave birth, she entered the confinement center and pushed a lot of work to accompany her. Su Xiaoxiao was guarded by a professional aunt 24 hours a day, and the grandma whom Feiyue found looked very comfortable.
Shi Ning spends two hours a day playing with Xiaoxiao when she is awake, letting her grab her fingertips with her soft little hands, trying to make her giggle, but it always seems to fail.
But fortunately, Shi Ning is not a guy who will give up when she fails. She basically adheres to the attitude of getting more and more courageous when it comes to teasing children.
Shi Ning never thought that it would be so difficult to attract a child's attention.
An experienced auntie at the Confinement Center persuaded her not to worry, because the child may not be able to notice it because she has not grown up and is too young.
Although Shi Ning was a little dazed about the baby's situation and reaction, after searching for information and listening to other people's opinions, the answer she got was that she really shouldn't be in a hurry.
Just wait and see.
The days are still long, and the children will grow up slowly.
Except for the rest of the time to play with Xiaobao, Shi Ning basically stayed by Su Ganxue's side.
Su Ganxue hasn't reached the point where she can't get out of bed. Occasionally, she likes to read some astronomy books when she is free.
But Shi Ning enjoyed the feeling of being able to take care of Su Nanxue.
Before Xiaoxiao was born, Shi Ning jokingly said not to let the cub drink milk, but it was really born, how could Su Fillxue Yu Nai not let the child drink?
In this world, there is no reason for a hungry child to feed a mother.
Xiaoxiao's most energetic time every day is probably when she eats.
So there is no way, Shi Ning has one more job.
That is to watch the child eat on Su Fillxue's body every day.
It was an uphill battle for her.
Xiaoxiao such a small child can't control his strength at all.
When I eat Nao, I know to make myself full, so my mouth is very hard, and my little hands are still hard.
Sometimes when Shi Ning saw Su Fillxue frowning because of the pain, she couldn't help but want to take this little girl away.
Where did she bully her wife when she was born?
Every time Xiaoxiao finished her meal, Shi Ning came to clean up the mess for her.
The child doesn't care what he eats, and sleeps comfortably.
But Su filling the snow is still uncomfortable.
Stretched up, uncomfortable.
Hard buns are uncomfortable.
It has to be in a soft state.
But one of them is still there, and there is no other way but to let someone other than the baby solve it.
Shi Ning was honored to receive this important task.
She is gentler than a baby.
It also takes care of Mommy's feelings more than the baby.
Know how to get it more soothingly.
It's just that sometimes, if you're not careful, it will splash out. If you use your hands, you may even spray your face.
At this time, Shi Ning could only cry and laugh.
Nothing can be done now.
Can only endure.
Three months later, Su Nanxue recovered well.
After leaving the confinement center, she is also insisting on exercising.
Shi Ning finally had a full meal.
Hold for almost a year.
Su Fuxue didn't get much better either.
The two are going to be at home.
When the mood came, the baby suddenly cried.
The sound was terrifying.
No one can continue.
no way.
When the child was a little older, Shi Ning and Su Fillxue simply handed over the child to Fei Yue, let her watch, and went out for their honeymoon.
Ask Feiyue to say, where in this world are there such parents?
But Shi Ning and Su Nanxue only went out for a week, and it's not that they never came back.
At times like this, Shi Ning would regret having a child.
Where did she have a child with Su Ganxue?
Apparently a light bulb was born.
The kind that can't be beaten or scold.
Sometimes I think that I should have figured out a way to make Su Nanxue unable to conceive at all.
After thinking about it again, this is not reliable.
Because she didn't even know why she couldn't get pregnant.
Shi Ning could only beg in front of the Buddha, hoping that the Bodhisattva would not let her have a second child.
Can't stand it.
one is enough.
another one.
When she summons the divine beast?
And she didn't want Su filling the snow to work too hard.
O Buddha! If they really have to have another one! Then let her get pregnant!
She is willing to endure all pain!
When Xiaobao grew up slowly, Su Fillxue and Shi Ning found that something was wrong with Xiaobao.
Her developmental level was significantly slower than other children of the same age.
When other children open their mouths to babble, they smile but do not speak, and those who can use their fingers will never open their mouths to speak.
Smile and don't like to go.
I don't even like to climb.
Every day depends on the arms of adults to hug.
Su Ganxue and Shi Ning took Xiaobao to the Children's Hospital, worried that she might suffer from autism.
Later, the doctor's diagnosis confirmed their guesses.
The doctor believes that Su Wanhe, that is, Xiaoxiao, this child does suffer from autism.
Autism spectrum disorder, to be precise.
She has problems with the nerves in her brain, and her perception of many things is different from that of a normal child.
But the doctor said, smiling is lucky.
Compared with those children with atrophied physical functions and low thinking ability, laughing is much better.
She doesn't have many problems except that she doesn't like to talk, her body develops slowly, and her hearing is too sensitive.
It can be seen from the examination that her intelligence is on the high side.
higher than the average child.
Doctors believe that Xiaoxiao may be suffering from Asperger's syndrome.
This kind of disease, which is regarded as "genius disorder" by outsiders, can indeed be regarded as lucky for people in the same loneliness spectrum.
However, the doctor also reminded Shi Ning and Su Ganxue that with this disease, Xiaoxiao is destined to live a different life from other children.
She may not be able to have a full social life and understand other people's emotions, so she may not be able to respond to the calls of the two mothers.
In a sense, autism can also spread to the patient's relatives.
Because to love this child may be a journey destined to be lonely.
She may not know the response.
I don't know what emotion is.
Neither Shi Ning nor Su Ganxue thought that such a problem would appear in Xiaoxiao.
After Su Tanxue knew about this, she didn't cry, and began to look up relevant information overnight. Shi Ning accompanied her to study and study, and they never planned to give up from the beginning.
Compared with other autistic families, Xiaoxiao has more resources.
Shi Ning began to participate in autism mutual aid associations, learning from the experiences of other parents and observing the reactions of other children of different ages.
She and Su Ganxue checked for a long time, trying to get Xiaoxiao to give them some feedback, but they all failed.
This chubby little baby will always be immersed in her own world.
Barbie's hair must be tied in double ponytails.
The toy car has to make seven turns on the ground.
Be sure to wait three seconds before eating.
She has many strange little habits, but both Shi Ning and Su Fillxue tolerate these habits.
It has persisted for a long time, but sometimes, when I look at Xiaoxiao eagerly, expecting her to look up from her toy, look at herself, and call her mother, but she can't get any response, there will still be disappointment.
Parents should receive psychological counseling and medical guidance more than children who cannot be treated.
Because not everyone can get through this tough hurdle.
One day, Shi Ning found Su Nanxue crying alone in the study.
It's very quiet, and I'm afraid it will disturb the children playing in the dollhouse.
Although he also had many moments of frustration, at this moment, Shi Ning knew that he had to be strong.
She walked to Su Fillxue's side and hugged her gently by her side.
"Wife, it will be fine."
"Xiaoxiao is the child of the stars."
"So she is destined to be our child."
Genetics are complex.
There are a thousand possibilities.
And smiling is the one in ten thousand chance of coming.
Just like Su Fillxue came to her through the universe, so did Xiaoxiao.
In any case, Shi Ning will cherish it.
In order to allow Xiaoxiao to find what she likes, and to allow adults to communicate with Xiaoxiao through this matter, Shi Ning and Su Fillxue have prepared various picture books for Xiaoxiao, which are always shown on TV at home. different videos.
cartoon.
Documentary.
Unlike other children, Xiaoxiao doesn't like watching cartoons.
When the TV sounded, she didn't like it, so she shook her head.
But this day, Xiao Xiao did not shake his head.
She heard the sound of the waves, so she looked up from the toy and looked at the screen.
The screen is a deep and romantic sea.
Krill swam by, glowing in the night.
Jellyfish are like special neon lights one after another, lighting up in the sea, illuminating the way home for countless lost sea creatures.
Smile and stare blankly.
She pointed to the TV and spoke.
"ocean."
"ocean."
When they heard this word, Shi Ning and Su Ganxue didn't react, they squatted beside Xiaoxiao. After hearing her repeat it again, Shi Ning and Su Ganxue looked at each other and hugged Xiaoxiao. I cried right away.
Although, Xiaoxiao doesn't like being hugged very much.
After more than sixty-eight seconds, she was about to start shaking her head.
While other parents were still arguing about whether the child's first words were father or mother, Shi Ning and Su Nanxue were feeling the long-lost happiness and emotion for this belated sound.
Effort is useful.
Xiaoxiao's interest in Hai was like a magic switch, which made Shi Ning and Su Nanxue quickly find a way to communicate with her.
How to understand mother?
Show Xiaoxiao a documentary about octopus cubs.
Show her how whales take care of their children.
So Xiaoxiao learned the word mother.
Gradually, it will also respond to the calls and concerns of Su Ganxue and Shi Ning.
However, there are times when the smile is too long.
When I was young and had not yet entered kindergarten, the creed in my mind was - the survival of the fittest, you live and I die.
This is embodied in the fact that if a little boy wants to bully her when she is out, Su Xiaoxiao, who looks soft and glutinous on weekdays, like a harmless little dumpling, can hold the little boy tightly without hesitation. Fist, slammed into the boy's face.
Usually this happens because the other child is unreasonable.
So once the parents of the little kid want to come to Su Xiaoxiao to settle the account, and then pull Shi Ning and Su Ganxue to pay compensation, they will be persuaded to go back by Shi Ning's three-inch tongue. .
In Shi Ning's opinion, a smile is right.
Who told those children to laugh and laugh softly in the children's playground and want to bully her?
In this case, Su Fillxue usually sings a red face.
Talk to Xiaoxiaohao, using marine knowledge as an analogy.
Soon, Xiaoxiao grew up.
This little star girl who is different from others is going to kindergarten.
Shi Ning and Su Nanxue were quite nervous about this matter.
They weren't sure if Xiaoxiao would fit into a normal kindergarten life.
Entering the collective environment is a challenge for Xiaoxiao.
But after communicating with experts in many aspects, discussing with family members, and even asking Xiaoxiao's personal opinions, Shi Ning and Su Tianxia made a decision.
They plan to send Xiaoxiao to kindergarten.
But kindergartens also have to choose carefully.
The strength of teachers, the surrounding environment, and whether it can provide a complete auxiliary force to help Xiaoxiao solve its own special problems, these all need to be considered.
Shi Ning and Su Nanxue have been picking for almost two months.
These two women, who have made great achievements in their respective majors, did not expect that one day they would be so tangled about where their children should go to kindergarten.
Finally, they settled.
The author has something to say:
Everything in the article is beautified, please do not compare it with reality. The parents of real autistic children pay more than this, and it is not easy for everyone. Although the author has verified materials and made life reference, he is not professional. Don't mind.
Well, good morning.
