MTL - Lisko’s American Life-Chapter 2036 invite

【Lisko's American Life】【】

Hearing Xiaoyu's invitation all of a sudden, Seaman covered his cheeks excitedly. For himself, although he had always been looking forward to this kind of scene, he was limited by the short contact time between the two of them. For some reason, I may not have let my feelings reach the corresponding level.

For Seaman, the invitation sent by the other party is very important. Although it may be just an ordinary invitation in Xiaoyu's eyes, he hopes to go to a fixed place with his girlfriend. The way to deepen the relationship and understanding between two people, living together with those young people after falling in love, the running-in with each other actually has the same effect.

But in the eyes of Americans, this is not the case. The other party can invite you to visit his hometown or country. To have the mentality to continue walking with you, there is your figure and role in the vision of the future.

In fact, Americans have always been relatively negligent in their relationship attitudes in many cases. The two parties maintain a relatively smooth process. When they go out on a date for the first time, it is the stage for both parties to understand each other. If you match with yourself, you can get closer on the second date, and at the same time, you have a deep understanding of each other. If you feel that the other party is not suitable for you, you will regretfully propose it at the end of the first date. Say goodbye.

On the third date, you can already reach the stage of staying overnight. This allows Americans to maintain enthusiasm, romance and fast feelings, but it is also full of many uncertainties. When many people fall in love, they are The whole person is relatively blind, and sometimes may adopt the idea of ​​turning a blind eye to the other party's flaws, or feel that he has the ability and confidence to change the other party's bad habit.

But the result may not be as you wished. After the enthusiasm and love have receded, all kinds of troubles and daily necessities will fall into your life. All feelings will become vulnerable after this stage of experience. The feelings of the Americans come like the wind, and when they go away like the rain, they are embarrassing, and they don't even have the mentality and preparation to accept this kind of parting.

But in the eyes of Americans, if you have really made a plan to stay with the other party for a lifetime in your future vision, you will make this more important request, which means that you hope that the other party can understand you better. In the past, and the environment you live in, I have a relatively thorough grasp of your personality and some habits. If nothing else, after this trip, the next step is almost the time to propose marriage. The stage is over. During this trip, if the two people have similar temperaments and matching personalities, the proposal of marriage will naturally be a matter of smooth sailing, which means that they can indeed walk into the palace of marriage together with a more serious attitude.

But Xiaoyu didn't know much about these things. On the one hand, it was because he had been in the United States for a relatively short time. On the other hand, he might not have anything to learn from in his life. The speed at which my sister and two people got married is simply jaw-dropping. It seems that these stages have been omitted directly. In a big relationship, the two parties are currently living a very happy life. It is completely unnecessary to learn from the other party some characteristics and opinions that normal people need to experience in their relationship.

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【Lisko's American Life】【】

The married life and relationship status of the other party cannot be reproduced again. While maintaining uniqueness, it is also full of all coincidences and fate. If my sister hadn't passed by her brother-in-law on a motorcycle that day, the subsequent story might not have happened to the two of them. There will be a next step of contact, and it will not be easy to enter the stage of love, and at the same time walk to the rhythm of the next marriage.

It is precisely because he does not have a thorough understanding of this aspect, so Xiaoyu does not know how important and experienced his invitation is to his girlfriend, but for Xiaoyu, even if he understands probably not too

Too much care, it itself is a more serious look for feelings, although Seaman can be regarded as my first love, after removing the ignorant and ignorant youthful secret love complex in my youth, the other party is indeed my first girlfriend. What's more, it's character, appearance, knowledge, and the family themselves can't find anything to be picky about each other.

If you really give yourself some time to think about it, Xiaoyu feels that combining with the other party or even walking into the palace of marriage is not so unacceptable, and even has some expectations and expectations in his heart. Little excited.

For myself who has received traditional education, being able to meet, get acquainted, get acquainted with someone, and at the same time walk into the end of falling in love is a relatively longing and dreaming thing. I have never talked about anything, falling in love and playing The time has not reached a certain level, and I don't want to be bound by marriage.

For many traditional Chinese men, starting a family and starting a business seems to be something that is engraved in their bones. Only after becoming a family will their mentality become extraordinarily stable. It will enter a mature state. Before getting married, the mentality is always longing for freedom, but when you really shoulder these responsibilities, these pressures and environments will unconsciously prompt a person to go directly to the mature stage .

Xiaoyu has no dissatisfaction with entering this stage as soon as possible. He also hopes that he can stabilize as soon as possible and have more energy and mentality and a more serious and responsible attitude towards his career itself. I don't have any desires, to what extent I want to be rich, and at the same time have a job that supports me to live independently, it is enough to have a vision for the future and the idea of ​​changing the world. After stepping into the society, it has been almost obliterated.

There are countless people who have the ability to change the world. I feel that I don’t have the talent and ability to do so. There may be a saying that is very good. The sign of a person's maturity may be that he feels that he is not able to change the world. Accepting his mediocre reality itself is also a mature expression.