After Rebirth, the Celebrity Daughter is the Medical Expert!-Chapter 462 - 358: To Understand Others, First Understand Yourself
Jincheng, Xia family.
Pregnant Xia Fei leaned on the sofa, looking anxious, said to Ning Youguang, "Being pregnant really takes a toll on my hairline."
"Hmm, I see it." Ning Youguang sat on the side eating snacks.
She was eating Jincheng’s famous snack - Longjing tea pastry.
The tea pastry is entirely green, with distinct layers of crust, a fragrance of Longjing tea wrapped around crushed egg yolk. A bite reveals a delicate crust, and the fresh, rich Longjing tea aroma is refreshing.
The soft and glutinous texture, full of Longjing tea aroma, refreshing and not greasy, is a taste Ning Youguang has never tired of since childhood.
Therefore, every time she returns to Jincheng, her aunt would thoughtfully prepare it for her.
"..." Xia Fei gritted her teeth, "Can you help me with my hair problem before eating snacks?"
"No." Ning Youguang said, "Anyway, after you give birth, the hair will grow back. Just let it be for now."
"Go away." Xia Fei stretched out her leg to kick her, "I’d like to see if you’ll be this calm when you’re losing hair like at a crime scene each time you wash your hair during pregnancy."
"I won’t." Ning Youguang said calmly.
"Sure..."
"What I mean is I won’t lose hair as seriously as you during pregnancy."
Xia Fei originally felt a bit balanced in her heart, but then she was infuriated by her complete statement and fell back.
She picked up a cushion next to her and threw it at her, "Talk big after you give birth."
"Be careful." Ning Youguang sidestepped, chuckled, "You’re still not behaving while pregnant, be careful about prenatal education."
Then, she continued, "I’m not talking big, I’m making an accurate prediction."
Xia Fei was so frightened she quickly bowed her head and gently stroked her belly.
Pretending to talk to her baby through her belly, "I’m sorry, baby, mommy didn’t mean to swear, please don’t learn to do that, okay?"
After coaxing the little one in her belly a few more times, she looked back at Ning Youguang, her eyebrows raised, "Who made you annoy me!"
"Yes, it’s me who annoyed you." Ning Youguang finished the Longjing tea pastry in her hand, picked up a teacup, and sipped elegantly as if she were a painting.
But it choked Xia Fei half to death.
After a long while, she asked again, "Why are you so sure you won’t lose hair seriously during pregnancy? Do you have some secret?"
Ning Youguang smiled, "I’ve been telling you that pregnancy causes hair loss, didn’t you even have a psychological preparation?"
"How would I know it would be this serious?" Xia Fei was speechless to death, "Grandfather gave me several food therapy prescriptions, but they’re useless."
Ning Youguang continued to sip her tea, "Oh."
Seeing her leisure demeanor, Xia Fei became anxious, "Come on, do you have any way to help me fix this?"
Ning Youguang slyly smiled, "Yes."
"What is it?" Xia Fei got excited.
"Go to bed before ten o’clock every night." Ning Youguang said seriously.
"..." Xia Fei was like a deflated quail, "What kind of secret is that!"
"Why not? How many moms are like you? Still not behaving when pregnant, going to bed after midnight every day, you better be careful in the future when your son is born, and he won’t sleep until after midnight too, then you’ll have fun."
Xia Fei was slightly stunned, "You can see it’s a son too?"
"Hmm." Ning Youguang said, "Didn’t grandfather also say it’s a son?"
Xia Fei nodded dejectedly, "Yeah, grandfather predicted it when I just got pregnant."
She wanted a sweet, soft daughter, but didn’t expect the birth of a baby boy.
Then she asked again, "Will my staying up late now cause my son to love staying up late too?"
"Most likely." Ning Youguang said, "Not one hundred percent sure."
"Then I better adjust my schedule." Xia Fei thought that if the little one in her belly doesn’t sleep until after midnight after birth, she might go crazy.
"Glad you realized." Ning Youguang was happy to see her make a change.
Xia Fei asked again in a gloomy tone, "Youyou, is there really no way to fix my hair loss?"
Ning Youguang nodded, "There is."
"What is it?" Xia Fei looked skeptical.
"Let me share a little secret with you." Ning Youguang put down her teacup. Seeing the skeptical look on Xia Fei’s face getting more intense, she quickly assured, "It’s a real secret."
"Go ahead." Only then did Xia Fei seriously perk up her ears.
"Whenever you wash your hair, don’t apply shampoo directly to your scalp. Instead, use water mixed with white vinegar to massage the hair roots, then use shampoo to wash the hair." Ning Youguang said.
"Really?" Xia Fei couldn’t quite believe it, "Is it really that simple?!"
"You’ll know if it works after you try it." Ning Youguang laughed.
"Alright." Xia Fei touched her forehead, "I’ll try it tonight when I get home."
After discussing her most concerned issue, Xia Fei finally had the heart to care about the other party, "Why didn’t you bring Xiaoshi back for the New Year this time?"
Ning Youguang said, "We’re not married, so of course, I won’t bring him back for the New Year."
"These days, no one minds that anymore. He spent New Year at our house last year." Xia Fei pouted, "Can you bear to let him spend New Year alone in the capital?"
"There’s nothing wrong with spending New Year alone." Ning Youguang said, "New Year itself is not something particularly worth celebrating."
"What kind of twisted logic is that?!" Xia Fei didn’t understand.
"Because when the new year comes, it means everyone is a year closer to death." Ning Youguang sighed.
"..." Xia Fei was simply stunned, but after thinking about it, she felt what she said made sense.
But once she agreed with her words, she couldn’t muster any expectation or joy for the New Year at all.
It was simply depression adding to trouble.
In the end, she could only sigh, "Don’t say things like that during New Year, or you’ll get beaten up."
It’s so inauspicious.
"Got it." Ning Youguang nodded, "Most of this world just likes to live in such self-deception."
"You’re right." Xia Fei almost worshiped Ning Youguang.
The two chatted a bit more.
Xia Fei talked about her husband, "Sometimes I feel like I don’t really understand him, especially after we’ve been together for a long time, I find there are many parts of him I didn’t see before."
"Of course." Ning Youguang said, "Human nature is complex and changeable. If you continue to view him with a fixed perception, it certainly won’t work."
Xia Fei nodded, "You’re right, I should think carefully and not be framed by fixed views."
She added, "It’s not easy, because people easily fall into fixed perceptions. Do you have any good suggestions for me on this?"
Ning Youguang said, "If you really want to understand him and think understanding him is beneficial to both of you, then my suggestion is to start understanding yourself first, because what we perceive in others is the part we understand and want to see."
